This is an incredibly painful situation, and unfortunately, it points to a much deeper issue affecting law enforcement and emergency personnel across the nation. Supporting their mental well-being takes more than good intentions—it must be built into the system, approached with foresight, and sustained over time.
One of the first barriers that must be addressed is the stigma around getting mental health support. Many officers are afraid that seeking therapy or counseling might jeopardize their careers, so they remain quiet. Agencies need to foster a culture where reaching out is viewed as a sign of strength, not weakness. Peer support teams—made up of trained fellow officers—can serve as a vital early resource and help make it more acceptable to ask for help before things escalate.
Another major challenge is accessibility. Having 24/7 hotlines tailored specifically for first responders can be life-changing, along with wellness teams led by professionals who truly understand the emotional demands of police and emergency work. Routine mental health check-ins—not just after traumatic events—can help detect warning signs earlier. Some departments have started to implement required sessions after particularly stressful calls—not as a disciplinary measure, but to offer a safe and supportive space to decompress and process what happened.
This line of work takes a constant toll. Ongoing exposure to trauma, high-stress incidents, and violence builds up over time. Resilience training and regular debriefings could help officers release some of that pressure rather than carry it alone. Family members should also be included in the support system, since they’re often the first to spot changes—like isolation, mood shifts, or harmful coping—and can play an essential role in early intervention if they have the proper guidance.
At a larger scale, increased investment from both state and federal levels is necessary to make sure that even smaller departments can implement meaningful wellness initiatives. Improving how first responder suicides are tracked—since many go unreported—would provide a clearer understanding of the issue and help direct resources where they’re most needed.
As Sheriff Gonzalez said, “When a deputy dies by suicide, it is particularly painful because I can’t help wondering what could have been said or done to help them.” His words reflect the deep sorrow and helplessness that many leaders carry. These tragedies don’t just impact the individuals and their families—they shake entire departments to their core.