Singer Sam Smith, who announced in 2019 that they use they/them pronouns, has once again become the center of an online discussion after TV presenter Lorraine Kelly repeatedly referred to them using male pronouns during a segment on her talk show. While discussing Smith’s appearance at the Barbie premiere, Kelly used “he” several times, while guest Vogue Williams consistently used Smith’s correct pronouns.

The exchange quickly drew mixed reactions online. Some viewers criticized Kelly for not respecting Smith’s stated identity, arguing that public figures should make an effort to use the correct pronouns. Others defended the presenter, saying misgendering can happen unintentionally or expressing disagreement with Smith’s gender identity. The discussion reflected the broader public debate surrounding language, identity, and respect.

Smith has previously spoken openly about the challenges of being misgendered. After adopting they/them pronouns, they acknowledged that mistakes would happen and asked people to simply try. In later interviews, Smith said changing pronouns felt like “coming home” and explained that while adjusting language can be difficult, using the correct pronouns helps them feel more comfortable and accepted.

This is not the first time Smith has been misgendered in the media. Similar incidents have occurred during award shows and television interviews, often sparking renewed conversations about the importance of respecting a person’s chosen pronouns while recognizing that unintentional mistakes can occur as people adapt to changes in language.