Getting a first job after college is an exciting milestone, but one young woman’s experience has sparked a debate about the challenges of working full-time. Brielle, a recent graduate who landed a marketing job in New York City, shared her frustrations on TikTok, explaining that the demanding routine leaves her feeling exhausted and struggling to enjoy life outside work.

Living in New Jersey because she cannot yet afford to move into the city, Brielle says she catches the train around 7:30 a.m. and often doesn’t arrive home until 6:15 p.m. By the time she showers and eats, she has little energy left to cook, exercise, or pursue her hobbies. She says the commute—not her job itself—is what makes the traditional office schedule so difficult.

Brielle also worries about finding time for friendships and dating. After sending out dozens of résumés and receiving very few responses, she feels fortunate to have secured a position but is still struggling to adjust. Her experience has resonated with people who face similar challenges balancing work, commuting, and personal responsibilities.

Online reactions have been divided. Some commenters believe adjusting to full-time employment is simply part of adulthood, while others argue that the traditional 40-hour workweek no longer fits modern life, especially for people who must manage household responsibilities alongside their jobs. Brielle’s story has reignited a wider conversation about work-life balance, remote work, and whether a four-day workweek could offer employees more time to live beyond their jobs.